For all that's in the world is the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life and that's not of the Father God. Every good and every perfect gift is from above that comes from the Father of lights which is no confusion or sorrow to it. God takes foolish, low, and weak things of this world to confound the wise and mighty things. You might think, that the things you are going through is ridiculous but God has chosen those things to make you, to glorify him. When Jesus was tempted of the devil in the wilderness with the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and pride of life, he overcame these things. So walk in the Spirit and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life. You are complete in Jesus Christ. Love not the world neither the things that are in the world, which is the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life. And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passes away. Because the world passes away and the lust there of, but you that do the will of God shall stay forever. Last of all, God so loved the WORLD, HE gave HIS ONLY begotten Son that whosoever believes in Jesus shall not perish. You should not love the world, God did that when HE gave HIS Son a sacrifice. God is good, not you. Jesus, the Son of God carried the sins of the whole world and finished his mission. The Holy Spirit will teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance whatsoever Jesus has said unto you. The Holy Spirit will reprove (speak against) the world of sin, of righteousness and of judgment. Of sin because they don't believe on Jesus for help, of righteousness because Jesus went to the Father and you see him physically no more, of judgment for the prince of this world (the devil) is judged. The devil uses the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life to allure you into sin. Let the Holy Spirit love through you, the Holy Spirit will help you to love your enemies. If you enemy is hungry feed them, if they thirst give them drink. He said "love your enemies": not to make them your friends. Trust the Lord with all your heart, He will guide you.